A dedication to all the mothers.

As I close my eyes
To find the best words
To describe what you mean to me
I go blank and go through pages
Of heaven’s dictionary
Only a divine word
In the highest means
Can describe the role you play in my life.
You are born as a daughter
Just a perfect one like an angel
Grow up to be a sister
Warm and gentle as a loving dove
You play each role
Like the angel’s queen
You touch those hearts.
And make people serene.
You soar in your dreams
And your feet touch the centre of earth’s core…
You are the angel I selected
I wanted to walk this earth
Only through your door
Years have passed by
And where I stand today…
I may not see you it
But your soul gives me the fire
To find my lost way
God created my existence
But you let it flow through you
In your arms… I found the meaning of heaven
A meaning to my soul, so new
The first touch of your hand
Filled me with power to live
Behind every word that you taught me as I was growing up
You simply taught me the power to give….
Years passed by and you never complained
Perfect daughter, sister, wife and mother…..
The shine of success you easily sustained
As years pass by and I grow older, I realize what you did what not easy
You did it all for a part of your soul
That part that was beating through me
I will always be what you carved me to be….
Even though years will pass by
And no matter where I go…
A gleam of your soul, you’ll always see
Words may never describe the best
The mark of your presence
Its deep within my soul… its deeper than its core
The footprints of your smile
Will always be in my soul….
Heaven’s God even loves you
that’s why he’s gracefully playing thy role…

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Believing in your self , when no one does.

Inevitably in life, we will face disapproval or rejection from others. It might be a family member, friend, employer, or even a stranger. They might disagree with the way we live our lives, the decisions we make for ourselves, or even who we are. They might belittle our dreams, criticize our goals, or make hurtful comments that reveal a low opinion of us. These experiences can be quite painful, because we all want to be liked and accepted. We all want to be supported and nurtured and loved by those around us. Being rejected or ridiculed by others (especially if it’s a frequent occurrence) can cause us to question our own self-worth and value as a person. We begin to wonder if maybe they’re right. Maybe we’re not lovable enough, or talented enough, or “good” enough to be accepted. Following this line of thought for any length of time can be incredibly damaging to our self-confidence.While it’s normal to have a few moments of uncertainty when we are rejected, the worst thing we can do is internalize the negativity we recieve from others. Just because someone has a low opinion of us does not mean we have to accept it as our truth. They can only come to their conclusions by looking at us from the outside. They don’t feel our feelings, think our thoughts, or experience the things we have in our lives. They are seeing us from a completely different perspective than our own. To complicate matters even further, their own life experiences, thoughts, and feelings can easily be projected onto us, so they may see something that doesn’t truly exist, except in their own mind. So, how do we overcome this? How do we avoid letting other people’s negativity erode our belief in ourselves? There are three major points to keep in mind:

1) Reinforcement -Strength. Think of positive thoughts as the antidote to any negativity that comes your way. Feed your mind empowering, positive thoughts daily, preferably several times a day – and most especially after you encounter negativity from another. The stronger you can build up your belief in yourself, the less you will care about others who insult you, ridicule you, or reject you. You won’t be looking to others for your sense of validation or approval, because you will already have your OWN approval.

2) Conserve Your Energy-While it might be tempting to try to explain, defend, or prove yourself to someone who rejects you, this is usually a waste of your time and energy. Once someone forms an opinion of you, they are unlikely to change it. The more you try to change their minds, the more stubbornly they will dig their heels in and resist. So, simply release your need to prove yourself and accept that they are entitled to their opinions. Their comments and opinions cannot detract from your belief in yourself, unless you allow them to.

3) Limit Your Exposure- Once a person reveals their negative opinion or directs hurtful comments your way, you might want to avoid spending excessive time with them in the future. This becomes more difficult if it is a family member that you can’t just shut out of your life completely. But you can still set boundaries and limit the amount of time you are faced with negativity.

Finally, remember that no one else can define you, or live your life for you, or take away the beauty and uniqueness that is you. They may try, but they won’t be successful unless you allow it.If you instead choose to turn away from the negativity and focus on building a solid foundation of belief in yourself, the negative comments will cease to matter to you. You will go on to create a fulfilling, successful life that reflects exactly who you are, regardless of what others say or do.
Have a soulful weekend.
Love and light,
-Tamanna C

Changing frequency and it’s effect on us

Hello hello,
Hope everyone’s having a hood start to May. I often feel bad about not being regular with my blog,but work,travel and daily horoscopes at Vogue has kept me away from writing less than what I would otherwise.
It’s been a concern to many people. everyone can see it and feel it but one doesn’t know what to make out of it and handle the drift. Like we all know, every soul is a mass of energy resonating at a certain frequency level. every soul has its upper limit and lower limit. depending on your auric, physical , mental and emotional energies, your frequencies are constantly changing. your soul frequency is your authentic state of being, but if you are suffering from stress or disturbance on either one of your levels, auric , physical, mental and emotional, it can automatically lower your etheric frequency.We can feel draining energies on different level. below are few examples of how we can feel low on frequency-

Auric- sometimes we visit crowded places, parties or even our work places and if our aura is weak, we can get drained out without even realizing what is happening to us. other people’s negativity can linger on to our aura and then we carry it back in our energy field and personal relationships.

 
Physically- if we are unfit, not well rested or ill, this automatically reduces our etheric frequency. hence its important to constantly hear the voice of the body and move as per its pace. if the body is resisting a certain kind of food, drinks, pattern listen to your inner voice and act in its way. if we continue pushing beyond our limits, the frequency of our body drops , thereby reducing or lowering our eheric and esoteric energy.

Mentally  & Emotionally-

All our fears, blocks, insecurities, questioning from our past, present and into our future can even lower our frequencies to a degree we can’t even imagine. what you are inside reflects outside. any kind of jealousy towards others, bitterness, anger, pain, situations in memory that we are unable to let go off can drain us out beyond what one can decipher. it’s important to be mentally at peace and emotionally grounded with whatever is happening around is. I know it’s easier said than done, but it’s not impossible. The key to this is nothing but “ACCEPTANCE”. Once you accept that situations and people are in your life for a reason and open your heart to acceptance and learning without any fear, karma clearing becomes a lot more graceful. if you sit and analyze, question, doubt etc, it creates esoteric blocks, there by the constricting the soul from completion.
All of the above and lot more lead to our constant change of frequencies. every city, place, temple, work space etc has an energy attached to it and we are constantly changing with it. it’s important to be aware of when this shift happens and it’s important to detach with these energies. we body and mind reflects these energies in the following ways-

*sudden headaches,

*Hunger pangs.

*feeling sleepy or tired, or  physically tired but mentally awake.

*feeling uprooted in relationships.

*Erratic fears emerging without any reason.

*Mood swings etc.

These are FEW of the symptoms that can warn us regarding the energy frequency changing without us.

Now this is a energy shift from higher to lower.
Sometimes we witness the reverse when we encounter spiritual experiences or release our karmas. in my healing sessions and workshops a lot of people have reverse effect where they change from a lower to a higher frequency. this happens with following symptoms-

*Slight head ache or heaviness in the head but feeling light within.

*Sudden seeing colors every time you close your eyes.

*Sudden sensation of throwing up after initiations or healing sessions with me.

*feeling sleepy followed by peaceful sleep.

*Change in eating habits, following more healthy pattern. resisting food that no longer suits you.

*Feeling loss of memory towards unpleasant situations as they are releasing from your esoteric and etheric realm.

*Feeling more at peace and resolving situations emotionally with people with whom you had issues earlier. etc

The above experiences mark a shift in energy from lower state to moving into higher state.
depending on what frequency we are at, we attract people into our life for our karmic completions, lessons etc.

Every soul has to learn to accept and be more grounded with every situation and relationship we encounter. sometimes relationships can last for an hour, weeks, months or a lifetime.

for e.g.- if a patient/ client is visiting me for a healing / reading sessions, my interaction with them can be for an hour with is defined by the relationship of me giving them clarity and healing their energies followed by their self realization and transforming and energy exchange. now sometimes this relationship can last for just an hour or the person can come back to me time and again for clarity and healing. we are no one to define the time boundary of relationships. we have no control over time. we have control only over our acceptance.

Right now in our current energy cycles a lot of people find it difficult to accept- either the end of a relationship or beginning of new relationships. we are constantly question we few relationships ended in the past, or constantly questioning we are we meeting certain people right now and their purpose in our life. We will never know their purpose till the time it’s done or till the time you do a karma reading/ psychic reading with me, or simply you have to be gifted to know it the journey you share with various souls until then all we need to do is Accept.

Be loved,protected and at peace.

Tamanna C

May ’16 Horoscope

May’16 horoscope
Aries
This montht the energy cycles will give you the much needed break. While work will be hectic, travels indicated between 5-19th may’16, which will be very beneficial.  You may even think of hiring or working with new people this month. If you are looking at expanding post 18th may is when you get clarity. Work will slow down post 23rd, giving you time to be more organised. Finances will be slow till 4th may, post which abundance will flow in. You may get pending payments after 11th may.health will need attention 10-18th may and post 27th may. family cycle will need attention between 15-21st may as family member’s may turn to your for advice or emotional support. Partner’s health will need attention around 22-28th may. Avoid frction 7-11th may. Social life will be very hectic till 17th may, after which you will consciously slow down.

Karmic tip: prioritise your life.

Taurus
Since its birth month for most of you, and you will be expecting alot, let me warn you, you need to lower your expectations. I dont mean to discourage you but prepare you for what lies ahead. Work will be slow with unecessary friction till 12th. You may even think of quiting or taking up a new job. Clarity will only come through after 18th may. Avoid friction at work 1-5th may. Finances will be slow due extra expenses. Health will need attention 10-19th may.Family member’s health will need attention 1-10th may. Avoid confrontation about past issues post 25th may as it could lead to friciton. Dont take things peronally with family members. social life will be stable till 12th may, after which you just wont feel like meeting friends. You’ll bounce back after 26th may’16. You will also reconnect with people from the past.

Karmic tip: dont blame yourself for other people’s drama.

Gemini
A very hectic month for you with finishing pending work and also simutaneously setting up new work/ project or dealing with new clients. Clarity about new work will come through post 8th and 19th may. You’ll also work with new people after 22nd may. Finances will be stable.health will need attention 21-29th may. Balance eating patterns. Family life will be stable, with minor friction with partner between 15-24th may. Socially you will withdraw till 14th may to focus on work, post 17th may you’ll meet friends from a different city than yours. You will take charge of planning social dos and events.

Karmic tip: be more balanced.

Cancer
This month will start on a slow note due to exhaustion from april, but by the time you hit 7th may, work will pick up pace. You will attending to pending work and even add new ideas/ projects and responsibility. It will all show results post 19th may. Be more patient with co-workers/employees. Work will slow down post 27th may. Those in line of business will close an important deal between 9-20th may. Finances will be slow till 11th may, post which expect money to come in. If you are looking for external investments of mergers, expect results after 21st may. Health will need attention 2-18th may, especially back, knees and muscle spasm.  Sleep might be disturbed thorugh the month. Family lfie will be stable, except for an older family member’s health around 11-19th may. Social life will be hectic post 16th may.

Karmic tip: spend more alone time.

Leo
This month will change alot of thing, especially your outlook towards life. The month will ground you, and as you take risks or important decisions in work intiially, expect results only after 17th may. People at work may get defensive with you, but make sure you dont take things personally. Energies will settle by 15th ma. Post 25th may, energies will support your expansion or any new initiations. Finances will be slow/delayed till 17th may. Someone might even trouble you to make payments. Bank work needs to be looked into this month.health will be unstable throughout the month. Just exhaustion. Balance eating patterns. Family life will be stressful till 18th may. There will be emotional drama/ health or confrontation issues. Be ready for anything and everyting that comes up. Situations will clear post 18th may. Social life will be slow due to emotional stress, but friends will be supportive and will stablise your energies.

Karmic tip: dont co-relate present to the past.

Virgo
A brilliant month for you, where new tie ups/ colloboration will work out in every way possible. Every person you meet will be over whelmed with your charm/ vision and passion. You will implement ideas psot 16th may, but be more organised. important meetings set up around 3-10th may will bring in positive results after  25th may.  Finances will be slow, but will clear post 17th may. Health will need attention 1-10th may, especially eyes and stomach. Family life will be stable, but you may withdraw post 22nd may just to spend alone time. Social cycle will be hectic till 16th may, post which work will be priority.

Karmic tip: be more balanced between career and personal life.

Libra

This month will give you the push and clarity to put into implementation all that you have been ideating on. Intially things might be slow, but everything will fall into place by 16th may. Avoid frcition with a senior at work around 8-11th may. If you feel people have been criticising you at work, expect situations to change post 19th may. Post 25th may you’ll get all the acknowldgemtn and appreciation you need. Finances will be stable with extra expenses post 20th may. Health will need attention 2-12th may. Family life will be stressful, as family may expect explanations out of you. You will have to explain your point of view no mater how much you resist it. Be more assertive than aggressive. Avoid friction with partner till 14th may. Social life wont be priority this month.

Karmic tip: follow your heart.

Scoprio
This month will give you all the courage to follow your heart and dreams. You have had the resources to take work to the next level, but you have been procrastinating. If you are unhappy with your job/ employees, this month you will get a chance to say goodbye to everything that doesnt make you happy. Expect new work/ job to come through post 17th may. Work will pick up pace after 24th may. Finances will be slow initially but epxect more money to come through post 15th may. Pending payments will clear after 18th may’16. Health will need attention between 2-17th may especially eyes, throat and back. Family life will be stabe but post 18th may you may feel disconnected with family members as work will be priority. Parent’s health will need attenion post 22nd may. Social life will be hectic till 17th may. Post which an issue will friend make you withdraw.
Karmic tip: stop pleasing people.

Saggitarius
This month is all about work. Everything you want will go the way. Initially people might question your ideas and decisions but post 6th may you will receive all the suport you need. New strategy/ marketing ideas and team will fall into place after 12th may. Expect orders from old clients post 17th may. A friend/ social peer will also push you/help you in a positive way.  Focus on one thing at a time. Fiances will be stable. Expect money through family after 16th may. Health will ened attention 12-21st may. Family life will need your attention till 13th, as family members may be emotionally needy or indecisive. Be more patient with them. Avoid friction with partner post 25th may. Social life will be slow till 17th may. You’ll reconnect with old friends after 19th may.

Karmic tip: be more communicative.

 

Capricorn

This month the energies will create chaos till 12th post which clarity and results of your hard work will be seen. Work will move forward as you expand and venture into new job opportunities. Avoid friction at work 1-8may. Meetings scheduled around 22-27th may will be extremely positive . Health will need attention between 7-15th may. Family life will be stressful due to parents health. Avoid friction with partner 19-27may. Spend time reflecting on repeated patterns and lessons you need to learn with family. Social life will be erratic depending on your mood swings. Post 20th may you’ll clear the friction with a dear friend.
Karmic tip-be more emotionally independent.

Aquarius
Work will be stable, but no matter what the results are you will be unhappy. Its got nothing to do with people. Its jsut your mental frame of mind. Be more flexible. New tie ups/ collabroations/ repsonsibility expected after 16th may.  Work will slow down post 27th may, due to delay from others. Finances will be slow till 12th. It could be frsutrating as you may have decisions to be made on basis of money coming in. Health will need attention especially disturbed sleep patterns, family lfie will be stressufl due to female member’s health till 17th may. Post 22nd may  you will enjoy quality time and heart to heart conversations with family members.socially you will be on a roll . reconnection with old friends, travels, get togethers indicated through the month.
Karmic tip: be more gentle with yourself.

 

Pisces
May will be extremely productive with increase in responsibility. You need to be open to exploring new opportunities or change the way you work. Expect positive response post 17th may. There can be slight chaos or slow down post 22nd may. Pensive payments will clear post 16th may. expect money from family members after 24th may. Health will be stable but you will be constantly exhausted and drained. Balance eating patterns. There will be slight family stress between 17-28may due to others feeling insecure or how. Spend quality time with family members. Partner’s health will need attention between 19-26th may. Social life will be hectic with reunions ot obligations to attend. Post 22nd may you’ll make a conscious effort to slow down.

Karmic tip-be more flexible.