Hello everyone.. Hope everyone’s had a great day filled with love and light.
Well as for me, my saturday has just gone in cooking, lunching with my rakhi brother and back to cooking again.
As I right this post, I’m stuck in traffic on my way to mom’s house for a dinner party with their friends.. Can’t wait to feed them all with the goodies I cooked.
Anyways through this post I’d like to discuss today why people we connected with earlier are falling apart from our lives today. I know a lot of people who have been complaining about how they don’t feel the connect with old friends or loved ones any more. Even though everything seems to be fine on the physical level, emotionally there’s a disconnected.
This happens for two reasons.
1- may be the person / relationship was only meant to be till this certain time period, and may be the disconnect is happening for either one to let go.
Secondly another major reason is shift is energies / soul frequencies. When we make friends or meet people, apart from our soul chart plan, we attract a lot of people who are similar to our soul frequency/ or sometimes we say our “”wavelength”. We connect with them because we resonate with their energies.
Over a period of time, as life goes on and throws situations at us, every soul deals / reacts / transforms in a different way. Your reactions and way of dealing with matters could be very different from a friend or a loved one. And depending on how you handle situations, your frequency changes and so does the other person. Over a period of time, you don’t resonate with their frequency. Their way of being has changed and so has yours. There is also a shift in mental and emotional being. There is nothing wrong in this. Nor we are anyone to decide who is good or bad. Its just different. Hence this difference in energy leads to a fall out / break up or a disconnect sometimes.
In a lot many cases I’ve dealt with, this can also be the cause of break up or divorce. Sometimes like the way people change, you also change and so does your priorities.
If you have encountered such situations off late , all I’ll say is that it is OK for you to feel the pain but its ok for you to even let go. If you hold on to it, sooner or later you’ll begin to go through frictions and before you realize the relationship will be filled with bitterness and pain. I know its easier said than done and also sometimes we get dependent on these relationships and wonder how will we manage, but trust me as you begin to let go, you will also attract new people who resonate with your current vibrations and frequency. Its all a journey. Be open to let go and accept new energies. That’s the way to grow.
Hope God gives you all energy of strength and courage to let go, and clarity to accept new loving energies in your life.
Love and light